Has all the newness worn off the new year? Are you already counting the days until your spring break trip? Then it's time to tune up your energy level. With all the work and personal demands that fill your days, be deliberate about maintaining your energy. Fortunately, there are lots of easy steps you can take during your day to recharge and renew. Here are some of the key strategies that energetic women share.
1. Spend time with people who energize them
The people you’re around regularly have a huge effect on whether you feel lively and energized or depleted and crabby. Think of how you can get some time with people who lift you up. Maybe that means scheduling lunch with your favorite former boss or making a coffee run with the co-worker who always makes you laugh. Bonus: Cultivating relationships also helps you build a career-boosting network.
At the same time, be mindful about your exposure to the other kind of people: the ones who drain your energy. How can you manage the amount of time you spend with your de-energizers? Or what can you do before or after seeing them to replenish the energy they take from you?
2. Avoid mental traps that drain their energy
Sometimes we drag our own energy down with negative self-talk and destructive ways of thinking. For example, do you tend to take things personally, assume the worst, or exaggerate the impact of any event or setback? No wonder you're feeling stressed and exhausted! Check out my article on common "thinking traps" to identify your negative thought patterns and replace them with more positive, energizing thoughts.
3. Know their unique energy patterns
We all have different energy patterns. It's important to understand yours and make the most of them. For one week, monitor your energy level every two to three hours. Keep a log of this information. At the end of the week, consider these questions:
What days of the week or times of day did you have the most energy?
What days of the week or times of day did you have the least energy, even if you hadn’t done anything unusually taxing?
What types of activities gave you the most energy?
What types of activities drained your energy?
Use your own patterns to develop strategies to help you better manage your energy throughout the day. If you have more energy in the morning, try to schedule your challenging work or meetings then. If your energy slumps midday, what one thing can you do to give yourself a boost?
4. Take time to reflect
One of the most effective ways to be more productive is by creating space to be more strategic. Setting aside time to reflect will bring new energy to your work. Start by putting just 10-15 minutes on your calendar once a week to process what happened at your recent meetings and prepare for upcoming ones. Work your way up to 15 minutes several times a week, and then an hour several times per week. This will also help you stay on top of your biggest priorities and maximize your productivity.
5. Use self-care to strategically boost their energy
Do you any of these statements apply to you?
I rarely get more than seven hours of sleep in a night.
I exercise fewer than three times per week.
I often skip meals or eat unhealthy food.
If you skimp on self-care, your energy and perspective will suffer. Yet many people, especially women, fall into this trap. You might think, “How could I possibly take time for ME right now when there’s so much to do and others rely on me?” In this view of the world, self-care is a luxury, a “nice-to-have.” In reality, though, self-care leads to a more sustainable way of working and living, so you can provide the support others need from you.
At the end of the day, what we’re talking about is energy management. Resist the temptation to keep giving and giving without taking enough time to renew your own energy. As you may know from firsthand experience, it can lead to burnout or resentment pretty quickly.
6. Express gratitude more often
Research has shown that gratitude makes us happier, healthier and more resilient. Yet we're less likely be grateful at work than we are in other aspects of our lives.
Taking the time to feel and express gratitude can lift your energy — and the energy of those around you. One way to do this is to express appreciation to someone who has made a difference for you this year. The more specific your feedback, the more energy you and the other person will get from the experience. Taking five minutes each day to simply notice the things for which you are grateful, whether it’s in the morning before the mad dash begins or at the end of the day, will give you a boost.
Try one or more of these strategies the next time you start to feel tapped out. And for one more easy energy boost, pick up my Highlight Audio℠. With a sampling of strategies from the full WOW! Women On the Way to Peak Performance Program℠, this audio training will help make the most of every minute, whether you're working out at the gym, traveling to a meeting or waiting in the carpool line.